DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LOVE AND LIKE

In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster.

But in front of the person you like, you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring

But in front of the person you like, winter is just a beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.

But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

In front of the person you love, you can’t say everything that is on your mind.

But in front of the person you like, you can say everything that is on you mind.

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.

But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.

The person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes.

You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love

But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with them

But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye.

And the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like,

All you need to do is cover your ears,

But if you try to close your eyes,

Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever after.

Emotional Intelligence

The ability to pick up others emotions is something we can all do naturally.The fastest way to learn to be sensitive to and identify others emotional states is to learn to read our own. If we cannot inwardly read and identify  our own emotions it will be impossible to do this for others.

The great danger of getting too close to others emotions is that we fall into them and create the same emotions ourselves. This is often seen as one of the pillars of friendship in an emotional relationship. But to fall into and create and experience the same emotions as another is not sympathy, and  it doesn't help them climb out of their disturbance. Hence the need to practice 'detached involvement', a process whereby we stay sufficiently detached to be able to accurately read and understand the emotions of another while staying sufficiently involved with them so we may offer our help to them.

                                                         

Happiness

Happiness is the undying quest of life, the unquenchable thirst and the insatiable hunger of all human kind. Happiness is what we all seek for, what we long for. But can such bliss be nothing but an elusive state of mind, which is here one moment and gone the next, or is such a positive outlook attainable for a lifetime? Perhaps it is, it just is.

Happiness is always a by-product.  It is probably a matter of temperament, and for anything I know it may be glandular.  But it is not something that can be demanded from life, and if you are not happy you had better stop worrying about it and see what treasures you can pluck from your own brand of unhappiness.

Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier.  The way it actually works is the reverse.  You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.

Happiness is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.

Everything is material for the seed of happiness, if you look into it with inquisitiveness and curiosity. 

J

Life is Beautiful

This life is what you make it. Not matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, somg go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.


:D :D :D :D :D

Relationship

Don`t we all come to this world as guests—constantly striving to find the golden rule of a successful rapport with everybody and everything we come across? From birth to death a person`s success or failure is measured by the kind of relationship he/ she has had with elements of this world: people. Nature and beyond it all, with the spirit behind this "relative world". But striking the right chord in a relationship often proves a hard nut to crack.

The world seems to constantly echo with a disconcerting chorus of voices, the result of frustrated relationships between parents and their children, husbands and wives, friends, siblings, in-laws, employees and colleagues—individuals disillusioned with themselves for not being able to relate successfully to their environs.

The most interesting aspect of this scenario is that, today there happens to be no dearth of methods to arrive at that elusive "success" in the act of relating.

The phenomenal flux of changes in every sphere of our lives since the last century has redefined the role of human relationships. Social revolutions such as the women`s lib, the cult of the individual, and even the human potential movement have repatterned the basic premises of relationships. A good relationship today is not one that just lasts but one that coexists with self-respect, individuality and the need to grow.

For it to thrive successfully, marriage counselors and psychologists, also, stress the need for this kind of "space" within a couple`s relationship. An individual in a marriage shouldn`t be a repository of one`s own needs and desires, in fact both the people involved should be totally committed to their relationship. They must be ready to take responsibility for themselves as well as the relationship.

How to Make Relationships Work:

• Don`t try too hard to convince the other person of your love. Love and trust yourself more. This will relax your love defenses and enable you to give yourself totally to relationship.

• Don`t question the other person`s love all the time.

• Feel the oneness of the universe.Step beyond the `me first` conflicts that mar relationships. This would help you be complete within yourself.

• Don`t use your relationships to fulfill your expectations.

• Know yourself. Analyze the cause of your reactions.

• Acknowledge the other person as an individual. Grow and let grow.

• In a conflicting relationship, check where you went wrong rather than where the other person failed. Listen to each other. Communication strengthens the foundation of a relationship.

• Take the first step in working out a relationship without worrying about who is in the right. Don`t depend on any person and don`t let the other person depend on you.

Letting Go

To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on.

It is having an open mind confidence in the future. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up.

Thank You for helping me realize..............................................

Luck is not everything

IF:A  B  C  D  E  F  G  H  I  J    K    L  M  N   O   P   Q  R  S   T   U   V  W  X   Y   Z

Is equal to 1  2   3  4   5  6  7   8  9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

Then,

Hard Work
H+A+R+D+W+O+ R+K
8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 = 98%

Knowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+ D+G+E
11+14+15+23 +12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

Love
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54%

Luck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47%

Most of us think this is the most important ?

Then what makes 100% ?

Is it Money ? .. NO !
M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72%

Leadership ? …. NO ! ! !
L+E+A+D+E+R+ S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+ 19+9+1 6 = 89%

Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our attitude.

To go to the top,
To that 100% ,

What we really need to go further… A bit more…

ATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+ D+E
1+20+20+9+ 20+21+4+5 = 100%

It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes OUR Life 100% ! ! !

 

Have the Right Attitude in Life!!

What is Life?

Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about whom you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about.


Some things in life are either taken way to seriously or not serious enough. So why worry so much about our everyday problems. I mean there is only so much time to be alive but plenty of time to be dead. So live every day like it is your last. Take way to many pictures, laugh to hard and love with all your heart. 

Can't Get You Outta My Mind

I can't get you outta my mind, oh no no
I can't get you outta my mind
oh no no, oh no no no

You said everything would be fine, oh no no
You said everything would be fine, oh no no
I can't get you outta my mind
oh no no

Well I tried and I tried and I tried
I can't get you out oh, no no no
Well I tried and I tried and I tried
I can't get you out, outta my mind
Well I tried and I tried and I tried
I can't get you out, oh no no no no
Well I tried and I tried and I tried
Can't get you out, outta my mind
Outta my mind

You said everything would be fine, oh no no
You said everything would be fine, oh no no no no
I can't get you outta my mind
oh no no

Oh no no, oh no no, oh yeah
Oh no no, oh no no
Oh no no, yeah
Oh no no, oh no no
Oh no no, yeah 

What Is Real Love?

Love is hard to define, so I shall share what I know.

When you love someone, it's like you would kill to be in their presence. You enjoy their company more than life itself, and you would die for them. When you love someone, the very thought of them makes you smile. Love is when you make each other feel invincible, and nothing you do could ever go wrong, and if it does, it won't matter, because you have each other. Trust me, you will know when you have experienced love, because it is so much more than you could ever imagine.


You truly love a person when you are ready to consistently put what is good for your relationship ahead of what is good for you as an individual. Note that this doesn't mean "what is good for the other person", just what is healthy for the relationship itself - unfortunately that can often be at odds for what you want for yourself, personally.

Loving someone is choosing daily to to be committed to sustaining your relationship. There are going to be times when you don't like your partner very much. But when you love them, you continue to treat them with respect in these times, and recognize that they are a human who's emotional well-being you are charged with caring for through thick and thin - whether you feel like it or not.

Beautiful Creation Of God

This is really a new perspective about a boy/man.

I think everyone might have read abt Mom’s, Wife’s and Girl’s.

Its time to learn something about Man/Boy.

 A boy/man is one of the most beautiful creations of God.

He starts compromising at very tender age. He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

Later he sacrifices his mischief for just a smile on his parents face.

He sacrifices his health for his wife and children by working late nights. He builds their future by taking huge loans and then repaying them for the life time. Thus he sacrifices full youth for his wife and children without any complain.

 Believe me he struggles a lot but still has to hear the music (scolding) of Mother, wife and his boss.

Yet every mother, wife and boss tries to have control over him.

Finally his life ends up by compromising for others happiness. He is that creature of God who no one can compete with.

Respect every boy/man in your life. You will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Just extend your hand when he needs it Boys Also Have Emotions. Respect them.