What is Life?

Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about whom you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about.


Some things in life are either taken way to seriously or not serious enough. So why worry so much about our everyday problems. I mean there is only so much time to be alive but plenty of time to be dead. So live every day like it is your last. Take way to many pictures, laugh to hard and love with all your heart. 

Can't Get You Outta My Mind

I can't get you outta my mind, oh no no
I can't get you outta my mind
oh no no, oh no no no

You said everything would be fine, oh no no
You said everything would be fine, oh no no
I can't get you outta my mind
oh no no

Well I tried and I tried and I tried
I can't get you out oh, no no no
Well I tried and I tried and I tried
I can't get you out, outta my mind
Well I tried and I tried and I tried
I can't get you out, oh no no no no
Well I tried and I tried and I tried
Can't get you out, outta my mind
Outta my mind

You said everything would be fine, oh no no
You said everything would be fine, oh no no no no
I can't get you outta my mind
oh no no

Oh no no, oh no no, oh yeah
Oh no no, oh no no
Oh no no, yeah
Oh no no, oh no no
Oh no no, yeah 

What Is Real Love?

Love is hard to define, so I shall share what I know.

When you love someone, it's like you would kill to be in their presence. You enjoy their company more than life itself, and you would die for them. When you love someone, the very thought of them makes you smile. Love is when you make each other feel invincible, and nothing you do could ever go wrong, and if it does, it won't matter, because you have each other. Trust me, you will know when you have experienced love, because it is so much more than you could ever imagine.


You truly love a person when you are ready to consistently put what is good for your relationship ahead of what is good for you as an individual. Note that this doesn't mean "what is good for the other person", just what is healthy for the relationship itself - unfortunately that can often be at odds for what you want for yourself, personally.

Loving someone is choosing daily to to be committed to sustaining your relationship. There are going to be times when you don't like your partner very much. But when you love them, you continue to treat them with respect in these times, and recognize that they are a human who's emotional well-being you are charged with caring for through thick and thin - whether you feel like it or not.

Beautiful Creation Of God

This is really a new perspective about a boy/man.

I think everyone might have read abt Mom’s, Wife’s and Girl’s.

Its time to learn something about Man/Boy.

 A boy/man is one of the most beautiful creations of God.

He starts compromising at very tender age. He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

Later he sacrifices his mischief for just a smile on his parents face.

He sacrifices his health for his wife and children by working late nights. He builds their future by taking huge loans and then repaying them for the life time. Thus he sacrifices full youth for his wife and children without any complain.

 Believe me he struggles a lot but still has to hear the music (scolding) of Mother, wife and his boss.

Yet every mother, wife and boss tries to have control over him.

Finally his life ends up by compromising for others happiness. He is that creature of God who no one can compete with.

Respect every boy/man in your life. You will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Just extend your hand when he needs it Boys Also Have Emotions. Respect them.

What is true love?

True love really exists. It is very rare but some people are lucky enough to find it. If you are one of those lucky people who have found true love, make sure you hold on to it. Never ever make people you love feel like you are using them and that you do not love. This is because they might leave when you least expect it. However, there are some people who think that they are in love and that there love is true only for them to discover otherwise. True love means that a person loves you more than enough never to let you go. When you need him or her the most, they will be there to hold your hands and to assure you that things are going to be okay. True love will not bolt on the first sign of trouble.

True love means that the two people who say they love each other really love each other. They do not only say it to themselves and the people who are listening but they act on it. True love is never one sided where by one of the person in the relationship loves the other more than the other. It has to be at least equal and if it is not equal the difference should not be too great that is quite noticeable by people who were not even looking. True love is selfless, that is just what true love means.

True love means so many things. Among those things is that true love is all about sharing. People who love each other share things that affect them. They will not also say that something belongs to them and the other person should not touch it. True love will allow you to share each others things. Now here comes the complicated staff. True love though allows people to share things; true love is also respectful of people's possessions. They will not misuse them in the name of loving each other but rather they will be careful while using their partner's things. They will even ask for permission to use the staff before they even try to get any where near it. So do not hide behind true love and spoil your partner's things and expect them to understand because they love you.

True love means that you trust each other enough to close your eyes and let your partner lead the way. That means you believe in him or her and you know that they cannot hurt you because they love you. It also believes and trusts that you are not having a relationship behind their backs and that even if you went out, it wouldn't be to have an affair with someone else but it would be because you want to have fun with you friends. True love is everlasting and because of that it plans right ahead. If a person does not love you, you will not hear of any plans for the future. All their talks will be the present and never will you hear anything about the future.

GOD'S BLESSING

A man whispered "God, speak to me" 
And a meadowlark sang. 
But the man did not hear.

So the man yelled "God speak to me!" 
And the thunder rolled across the sky. 
But the man did not listen.

The man looked around and said "God let me see you" 
And a star shone brightly. 
But the man did not notice.

And the man shouted "God show me a miracle" 
And a life was born. 
But the man did not know.
So, the man cried out in despair. 
"Touch me God and let me know that you are here!" 
Whereupon God reached down and touched the man. 
But the man brushed the butterfly away and walked on.

Moral: 
Don't miss out on a blessing because it isn't packaged the way you expect.

True Love

A Boy Never Does Homework
In Class
To Get Punishment Of Bending
......On His Knees;
In Front Of 'Her' Bench
Just To See Her For Whole Period... ♥

Gets Scoldings From His Parents;
Coz He Reaches Late Everyday,
Just To Ensure That She Has Reached
Home Safely Or Not... ♥

Skips His Lunch
& Pretends To Be Studying In
The Interval;
Just To See Her Eating The Food... =)

Walks By Foot To The Home Instead
Of Taking A Bus;
Just To Save Money To Buy
Chocolates For Her.." ♥ =)...

Price Of Love

A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the 4 pups and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard.

As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his overalls.

He looked down into the eyes of a little boy.

“Mister,” he said, “I want to buy one of your puppies.”

“Well,” said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, ”These puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money.”

The boy dropped his head for a moment.Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer.

“I’ve got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?”

“Sure,” said the farmer.

And with that he let out a whistle. “Here, Sally!” he called.

Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Sally followed by four little balls of fur.

The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence.

His eyes danced with delight.

As the dogs made their way to the fence, the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.

Slowly another little ball appeared, this one noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid.

Then in a somewhat awkward manner, the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up…

“I want that one,” the little boy said, pointing to the runt. The farmer knelt down at the boy’s side and said, ”Son, you don’t want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would.”

With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers.

In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe.

Looking back up at the farmer, he said, ”You see sir, I don’t run too well myself, and he will need someone who understands.”

With tears in his eyes, the farmer reached down and picked up the little pup.

Holding it carefully he handed it to the little boy.

“How much?” asked the little boy… “No charge,” answered the farmer,”There’s no charge for love.”

Trust

Im starting to become confused
About whats going on inside
Im not sure what to believe
Is it truth or is it lies
I feel like you don't trust me
You never tell me a thing
It hurts so much inside
I don't think i can win
What makes me upset
Is you don't see the pain in my heart
Just because you don't trust me
I'm starting to fall apart 

A touching love story

10th Grade:-

       As I sat there in English class,

       I stared at the girl next to me.

       She was my so called 'best friend'.

       I stared at her long, silky hair,

       and wished she was mine.

       But she didn't notice me like that,

       and I knew it.

       After class,

       she walked up to me and asked me for

       the notes she had missed the day before.

       I handed them to her.She said 'thanks'

       and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

       I want to tell her, I want her to know

       that I don't want to be just friends,

       I love her but I'm just too shy,

       and I don't know why.

11th grade:-

        The phone rang. On the other end,

        it was her. She was in tears,

        mumbling on and on about how

        her love had broke her heart.

        She asked me to come over

        because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.

        As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her

        soft eyes, wishing she was mine.

        After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,

        and three bags of chips,

        she decided to go home.

        She looked at me, said 'thanks'

        and gave me a kiss

        on the cheek..I want to tell her,

        I want her to know that

        I don't want to be just friends,

        I love her but I'm just too shy,

        and I don't know why.

Senior year:-

        One fine day she walked to my locker.

        "My date is sick" she said,

        "hes not gonna go" well,

        I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,

        we made a promise that

        if neither of us had dates,

        we would go together just as 'best friends'.

        So we did.

        That night, after everything was over,

        I was standing at her front door step.

        I stared at her as She smiled at me

        and stared at me with her crystal eyes.

        Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"

        and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

        I want to tell her,

        I want her to know

        that I don't want to be just friends,

        I love her but I'm just too shy,

        and I don't know why.

Graduation:-

        A day passed, then a week, then a month.

        Before I could blink, it was graduation day.

        I watched as her perfect body

        floated like an angel

        up on stage to get her diploma.

        I wanted her to be mine-but

        she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.

        Before everyone went home,

        she came to me in her smock and hat,

        and cried as I hugged her.

        Then she lifted her head from my shoulder

        and said- 'you're my best friend,

        thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

        I want to tell her,

        I want her to know

        that I don't want to be just friends,

        I love her but I'm just too shy,

        and I don't know why.

Marriage:-

        Now I sit in the pews of the church.

        That girl is getting married now.

        and drive off to her new life,

        married to another man.

        I wanted her to be mine,

        but she didn't see me like that,

        and I knew it.

        But before she drove away,

        she came to me and said 'you came !'.

        She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.

        I want to tell her,

        I want her to know

        that I don't want to be just friends,

        I love her but I'm just too shy,

        and I don't know why.

Death:-

        Years passed, I looked down at the coffin

        of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.

        At the service, they read a diary entry

        she had wrote in her high school years.

        This is what it read:

        'I stare at him wishing he was mine,

        but he doesn't notice me like that,

        and I know it.

        I want to tell him,

        I want him to know that

        I don't want to be just friends,

        I love him but I'm just too shy,

        and I don't know why.

        I wish he would tell me he loved me !

        .........'I wish I did too...'

        I thought to my self, and I cried.

99 things EVERY guy wants from a girl

1. Guys prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys love flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys love a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys love it when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys EUR™ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting.

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Guys hate it when girls talk about their period

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame

themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships

    

     A guy just wants a girl to love him truly